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September 16, 2025

Lessons from the Journey: Stories from Families Affected by Dementia

Category: Dementia Resources

Author: Tisha Potts, Memory Care Director

As Memory Care Director at University Senior Living, I asked families navigating the complexities of dementia care to share their heartfelt experiences. Their stories reflect resilience, love, and the deep lessons learned along the way. What follows is wisdom from those who have walked this path—insights that resonate deeply with caregivers and families alike.

Letting Go and Living in the Moment

Families caring for a loved one with dementia often learn to release old expectations. Instead of focusing on what once was, they choose to cherish the time they have together. Dementia changes how individuals think, communicate, and behave. Adapting to these changes requires patience, flexibility, and a willingness to meet each moment with compassion.

Senior couple sitting side by side in a cozy community lounge, holding hands warmly and sharing a quiet, tender moment together in a supportive environment.

Through the journey, families often grow stronger as a unit. They learn to communicate more clearly, support each other consistently, and extend grace in times of frustration. This shared experience transforms them into a team, bonded by love and mutual understanding.

Advice From Those Who’ve Been There

For families just beginning this journey, seasoned caregivers offer this powerful advice: Meet your loved one where they are—not where you wish they still were. Your parent may not seem like the person you remember, but they can still experience joy and meaning. Let go of judgment and approach each interaction with love.

It’s in these moments—of laughter, connection, or even silence—that families discover new ways to relate. They begin to value presence over memory, emotion over logic, and love over loss.

A Journey of Strength and Solidarity

“Lessons from the Journey” reminds us that dementia care is both challenging and transformative. With patience and adaptability, families uncover a strength they never knew they had. I hope this story brings comfort and guidance to anyone facing similar challenges. You are not alone on this path.

The stories and experiences shared by families inspire and educate us all. I hope you have found reassurance and solidarity in their voices—and that their lessons serve as a beacon of hope for your own journey.

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